Community Church Sermons

Sixteenth Sunday after Pentecost – September 19, 2004

“Living In-Between Times”

Jeremiah 29:4-13

 

Dr. Robert M. Puckett

 

 

Americans have lived through an unsettled time since the terrible events of 9/11.  It has been an uncertain time for most of us as we wondered what will happen next.

 

But then, most of life is lived in the meantime.  Great peak experiences are few in the normal course of life, and most of life is lived in-between the great experiences that have happened in the past and those expected in the future.

 

Therefore, a person who does not learn to live in-between times is not fully alive. 

 

All ages are restless ages, and all times are critical times.  But people do not like to wait.  Few of us wear the badge of patience and maturity easily.

 

Nevertheless, people have always had to live waiting for something.  Usually, we wait for peace.  We wait for sons to come home from Iraq or Vietnam, or brothers to return from World War II, or fathers to come back from the front in World War I.  Grandmothers waited for Grandfathers to come from the Spanish American War; great grandmothers waited for the release of prisoners from Rock Island, and Richmond and Memphis, while great, great, great grandmothers waited for the Revolution to grind to an end.

 

People have always had to live waiting for something; usually peace, or daylight, or wives to get well, or children to be born, or for children to grow up and stand on their own.

 

We spend our lives waiting for a break, or payday, or death.  We wait for quitting time, or the mortgage to be paid off, or the doctor to come. 

 

We wait for prosperity, or independence, or comfort.

 

We wait for Republicans or Democrats to get in or out, for the stock market to go up, for the mailman, or, sometimes, when you are a minister, you wait with someone for the undertaker to come

Early one morning some years ago my mother and I left on a short trip leaving Jane by herself at home.  Soon after we left the hearse pulled up in front of our house and a little man in a black suit rang our doorbell. When Jane answered it, he said, “M’am, we’ve come for the body.”   Jane replied, “I’m the only body here and I’m not through with it!”

 

Most of our lives are lived in-between times.  A person who does not learn to live in-between times is not fully alive.

 

What in-between times?  It is waiting for a letter to come.  It is the agonizing pacing the corridor outside a wing marked “surgery”  It is the long journey from an old home to a new home.  It is the dusty journey made after all your friends have gone into the beyond ahead of you.

 

In-between times?  It is the all night vigil between the day your child was well and the day she will be well again.

 

It is waiting for school to be out, or test grades to be in, or graduation to come.

 

How we can live in-between times, when our hearts are somewhere else?

 

Long before Christ, Jeremiah found out about  in-between times and how to live in them.  All the way from Anathoth, his boyhood village where he became a prophet with disastrous consequences to himself, down to his eventual stoning by his fellow countrymen in Egypt, Jeremiah had reason to know about in-between times.  So he wrote a famous letter, and sent it to Babylon for the exiles to read.  He said it was a letter from God for captives:

 

”Thus says the Lord of Host, The God of Israel, to all the exiles

whom I have sent into exile from Jerusalem to Babylon.”

 

It was sent to thousands of Jews, huddled in Babylon 900 miles and a thousand days from the agonies of Jerusalem’s fall.  Their memories of the dying screaming in their ears and their brains reeling from their loss.  Their spirits overwhelmed by the might of Babylon’s military which had smashed them.  Befuddled by their defeat, desolate of hope for rescue; hope slipped off into despair!

 

“Sing us a song,” their captors said.  But how can you sing the songs of God in a strange land?  How can we forget the dying crushed in the collapse of the two towers of the World Trade Center?  How can anyone hope when there is no limit set on their hurting?

 

How can we live in this in-between time?

 

Jeremiah found out how to do it, and he wrote it down.  He sent his letter from God to Babylon.  It began from God, and it said, when you are captive, and cannot see the way ahead:

 

                        Build houses and live in them; plant gardens and eat their produce.

                        Take wives and have sons and daughters; take wives for your sons, and give your daughter’s in marriage.

 

In the meantime of your uncertainty - do the everyday jobs around you - do the next thing!  There is healing in the performance of ordinary things necessary for survival.

 

When you turn from a bed where death has slacked a jaw, or from the door where death has sent a telegram, it is not unusual to find solace in a watering pot or a broom to use.

 

Sometimes the only thing you can do is work - anything - just work.

 

The next thing!  Sometimes it’s all you can do because that is all there is - And Jeremiah said there is healing in it.  Do the next thing!

 

Keep relationships together.  Take wives and see to your sons and daughters in this foreign land!  None of your in-between times must be allowed to cut across fundamental relationships.

 

Your grief over your lost estate must not filter down to soak your children with senseless tears.  Don’t impose your own in-between times on younger hearts and weaker backs.

 

Jeremiah saw that the violation of this principle can destroy a home and wreck the health of a family. 

 

There is a fellowship, even in exile -- even in uncertainty -- even in suffering -- that must be kept strong even in your in-between times.

 

Some people seem to want to leave before the show is over.  They want to throw up their hands and quit before the last curtain falls.

 

That’s what happened to Charlie.  He had been an engineer at Norris Dam, an active gardener, an avid fisherman.  But when he retired, he sat down and did nothing.  Then one day, his wife called me and said that he had a gun and was going to shoot himself.  I ran off up to his house and demanded that he give me the gun.  The next day I said, “Charlie I need someone to teach me how to catch fish in Norris Lake.  I want us to go fishing tomorrow.  It was in the middle of winter but we went anyway.  It was snowing so hard you could hardly see the shoreline, and the wind was blowing so hard that every time we threw out a line it would blow back in our face.  Charlie kept saying, “I think we ought to go in.”  “Oh no, Charlie, we need to catch fish.”  Actually all we caught was a cold.  But after three hours on the lake Charlie forgot about shooting himself.  All he was thinking about was survival.

 

Did any of you go to the Tennessee-Florida football game last night?  How many of you left before the final six seconds of the game thinking that UT had lost?  If you did, you missed that Wilhoit fifty yard game winning field goal!  Proving that old adage, “It ain’t over ‘till it’s over!”

 

Jeremiah said there is a future from anywhere you stand!  There is always a future to prepare for.  Do not despair of anything until God gets through with you! 

 

What else can be done in the in-between times?

 

This is where Jeremiah made his most shocking statement to the Jerusalem loving Jews, heartsick for their native home.  It sounded like heresy, like treason.  But Jeremiah said, while you are kept from Jerusalem:

 

                        Seek the welfare of the city where I have sent you into exile, and

                        pray to the Lord on it’s behalf, for in its welfare you will find your welfare.

 

This was hard to take.  Loving Jerusalem, aching to return, held captive in Babylon, they were to learn to love the scene of their captivity...and pray for it!

 

Was that what Jesus meant when he said, “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you? “  (Matthew 5:44)

 

Alfred North Whitehead once said, “It is a mistake to cling to a region through which one has already passed.”

 

While on a diplomatic trip to Africa, President Bill Clinton met with Nelson Mandela who took him to visit Robbin Island where Mandela was a prisoner.  Clinton said, I know you invited your jailers to your inauguration, but didn’t you really hate those who imprisoned you?”  Mandela replied, “Of course I did for many years.  They took the best years of my life.  They abused me physically and mentally.  I didn’t get to see my children grow up.  I hated them.  Then one day when I was working in the quarry, hammering rocks, I realized that they had already taken everything from me except my mind and my heart.  Those they could not take without my permission, I decided not to give them away.”

 

Clinton then asked, “When you were walking out of prison for the last time, didn’t you feel the hatred rise up in you again?”  “Yes,” Mandela said, “for a moment I did.  Then I thought to myself, “They have had me for twenty-seven years.  If I keep hating them, they will still have me.”  I wanted to be free, so I let it go.”

 

Put down roots where you are.  There is a need in Babylon, seek the peace of the city where you are.  Your welfare is tied with the place you are.  Any time a person moves to a new place and seeks not the peace of that place, but dwells on the glory of the place or places he came from, the in-between time he spends there will be a lost cause.

 

Put down roots in your in-between times.  This is the key to Jeremiah’s letter.  Without this you have no hope.

 

This was hard for Jews in Babylon.  It is also hard for us in our in-between times.  But there is healing in it.

 

Jeremiah’s letter said: Do the next thing, there is healing in it; keep your fellowships strong , and put down roots where you are.  Seek the peace of the place you are and pray for it.  There is healing in all of this.

 

What if the only peace is Babylon’s kind of peace?  What if the uncertain peace of the present is all you get?

 

Jeremiah said, “Take it!”

 

”For in its welfare, you will find your welfare.”

 

The peace of Babylon is your peace!

 

Your recovery from in-between times  rests in making Babylon peaceful. 

 

The in-between times are to be lived through for their own sake in the light of God’s purpose for them and for us.

 

Do the next thing.

 

Be aware of the need where you are.

 

Put down roots, seek the peace of the place where you are. 

 

The place to seek and to find God is the in-between times.  For God himself has inhabited our captivity, and it is there  He speaks his good word. 

 

Jeremiah’s message encourages us to:

 

Pray for enemies rather than demonize them.

Speak softly instead of in the belligerent tones of a school yard bully.

Be genuinely concerned about the welfare of all humankind rather than pursue a greedy desire to acquire more for ourselves at the expense of those less fortunate.

Make peace not war.

 

It is the paradox of biblical history that God is doing his work in our in-between times.  The Lord God invades and breaks through our in-between times. 

And then?

 

Then shall you call  upon me, and you shall go and pray unto me, and I will hear you.  And you shall seek me and find me, when you search for me with all your heart.

 

And so may it BE!!  Amen!